Welcome to Divorce The Narcissist

Are you struggling to break free from the toxic grip of a narcissist in your life? Whether it’s a spouse, relative, friend, or coworker, the effects of narcissistic abuse can be devastating. At DivorceTheNarc, we understand the unique challenges you face, and we’re here to help you reclaim your life.

About Us

Expert Guidance from a Survivor and Specialist

My name is Chantal Kur, and I am a CPD Accredited Narcissistic Abuse Specialist and Narcissisic Abuse Recovery Coach. I am also an Accredited Divorce and Family Mediator, as well as a Workplace Mediator. Additionally, I hold a CMI Level 7 Masters in Somatic Trauma Informed Coaching. I am also an ICF and CPD accredited Positive Psychology Practitioner. I bring a wealth of professional expertise and personal experience to help you navigate the complexities of divorcing a narcissist. Having endured narcissistic abuse myself, I have firsthand experience with the insidious tactics narcissists use, such as gaslighting, flying monkeys, manipulation, and all their other soul-destroying tactics.

Our Services

Narcissistic Abuse Support

Individual Coaching: 

Tailored support to help you understand and heal from narcissistic abuse.

Divorce Mediation

Trauma-Informed Mediation: 

Specialized mediation services that consider the emotional and psychological impacts of narcissistic abuse.

Conflict Resolution: 

Strategies to effectively manage and resolve conflicts with a narcissistic partner or family member.

Workplace Solutions

Toxic Workplace Recovery: 

Guidance on recognizing and escaping narcissistic abuse in the workplace.

Professional Development: 

Training sessions to build resilience and navigate toxic work environments.

Workplace Mediation: 

Expert mediation to resolve conflicts and improve workplace dynamics.

Why Choose Us?

Individual Coaching: 

Tailored support to help you understand and heal from narcissistic abuse.I understand the deep emotional scars left by narcissistic abuse because I’ve lived through it. My professional qualifications and personal journey uniquely position me to offer empathetic and effective support. At DivorceTheNarc, we use Trauma-Informed Positive Psychology (TIPP) principles and a somatic trauma-informed lens to help you rebuild your life and regain your confidence.

Comprehensive Support

From coaching and mediation to professional development, our services are designed to address all aspects of your recovery. Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic spouse, relative, friend, or coworker, we provide the tools and support you need to break free and thrive.

Safe and Confidential

Your privacy and safety are our top priorities. We offer a safe, confidential space where you can share your experiences and receive support without judgment.

Get Started Today

Take the first step towards reclaiming your life. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about how we can help you divorce the narcissist in your life and move towards a healthier, happier future.

Experienced in mediations

Advanced ADR (AFSA) and UP – 2009
Chantal Kur is proudly on the Commercial Mediation Panel of the Arbitration Foundation of South Africa

South African Association of Mediators

Chantal Kur of Divorce Mediations is proudly an accredited Mediator with The South African Association of Mediators (SAAM).

ADR International Register

Chantal Kur is a Certified International Mediator and as such is registered on the ADR International Register.

Let’s Work together

Contact us today for a consultation